Karakti Bijliyan 2.0

 

This time it is not about eunuch and their activities neither for being a symbol of modesty, but it is fairly related to the assortment of womanly gender. This time the disparagement is crammed in those tight, fixed, dense, and deep necks, waists, and loins; so-called modern dresses or pieces of attire from which even passing of air is not allowed. Yes! I am talking about my west-influenced-eastern-wannabe lady-ss. I am not against the ‘other’ western ways of living, but this one. No! This is something beyond. I deem over the matter like for millions of time, but could not get any trace as a justified answer for this because; “We dress like this because __”. Nevertheless, I found many girls out there who favor wearing pants, jeans, tee shirts, shirts, uppers, or sometimes west dominated peejays and bermuda shorts (which is definitely not our culture/tradition). Wearing tee-s or shirts are not awful, but what is, it is the excessive intake of it. Deep necks, tight waists or dense loins are something afar and this is not only happening in those tops or uppers, but are now found in any adequate clothes like kameez-shalwar, sari-blouses or kurta-s. What madden me are the deep necks, like honestly what is your philosophy after them? Necks are so broaden that the cleavage is hence clear, waists are not even back in race, they are accordingly tighten that you can yet see-through them. Dupattas, scarfs, hijabs or burqas are far, initially these tailoring bloopers should recover, only then my ladies are going for some symbols of modesty. I am saying all this effortlessly because I am a man, I do not found it captivating that any of my women garb up like the manner occurring currently, and I consider none of a being alike me out there contradict with the same.

Even in our religion not all this is permissible, I am no one to teach the rights and wrongs of Islam to you, but Quran says:

“O children of Adam! Surely we have bestowed upon you a garment to cover your shame, as well as to be an adornment to you, and the garment of piety is the best.” (Al-A’raf, 26)

Following Islamic teachings are far, but at least we do not have to go opposed to them. We do not have to do that we are dispose of. Screening cleavage or waistlines are unproblematic to catch the attention, but not of God, this appeals only to His chastisement.

Pinpointing this subject is not an indication of anti-feminism, but is to give this burning factor a blow of wind so that for at least a period, it will extinguish. 

“I found this fairly justified that if being naked is being modern then animals are mainly modern on the planet.”

Mardana Kamzori.



The least I know in our religion it’s clearly cited that “Women have been created out of men's rib- (Quran Says)”, this is often used only when it comes to the discernment of women’s prominence in a society, but it can also be used accordingly that there should at least some of the women’s characteristics are found in men’s persona, Agree? I guess, yes. There are some trappings that make men’s actuality so alike women unbelievably top it off “Emotions and Sentiments.” Now, at this point I want to make my title clear that this entire article is not about what you think at first, but it is something ek mard ki kamzori- feelings, emotions, and sentiments are also a weakness to men just as our sinf-e-nazuk khawateen(women).

It has always said that men are less sensitive and emotional than women and so they not be worthy of any compassion and kindness. Experience speaks that if you have found a true loving and a sincere men you're as lucky as one in hundred because it has usually seen that when a man loves someone it is all from his heart and everything he does or say is nothing, but genuine, honest, and indubitable. Depression, desolation or dejection, these terms are not only made for women, but if you read a true loving or any men with the feeling of love, honesty, and sincerity's existence you found all these aspects in his day to day dealing. It is right that men do not illustrate his abasement or pain easily, but that does not mean he is antipathy. Egoistic nature is common among men that lead them not to exemplify their inner twinge and grief after losing a loved one or being in a crucial situation with the one. He cried, he prayed, he exclaimed, he wished, he craved for his loved one maybe in the obscurity of night, maybe hiding his woe behind smile. Things usually are not the way we think; there is always a story at the back of strong men, sometimes a heartbreaking one or sometimes tragic. People do not necessitate to judge that men is less sentimental than women and a heartless fellow, whereas do not examine his feelings for a loved one. Nonetheless, every man is somewhere a loving, affectionate, and devoted to the one he wants. Feelings, emotions, and sentiments are also Mardana Kamzori-s.

“The times I spend with you had some thorns, but the times I missed you had no roses.” -Gopinathan K