Sloppiness.

Tears of regret.

“Of all the words of mice and men, the saddest are, "It might have been.” Kurt Vonnegut

 We live a life in which we deal different set of minds popping to us like people. We come to know some dearly and some just to pass time with. This structure is aged and everyone ensuing it blindly and though it will be as it is now. No one is going to amend it. Sometimes our mood go upset and sadden, reminiscing the wrong deeds we did in past, no actually the deeds we did in past for wrong people and now they just seem to you as nothing, but Regret. Regret. We all did this in our lives once or more than that on anything. From preferring a bad color to paint your room, putting more salt in a dish, answered any question you know by heart wrong just because others convinced you to choosing a wrong person for your friend list or a wrong life partner. Believe it or not, we all did and they are more same as we find them out lately.

Life is an ongoing process that you or anyone can not stop or pause and picking out people in this process is also unending, but what we have to do is be more careful when selecting the same. Nevertheless even then we choose wrong people. Take it as a challenge and try it once. You’ll get nothing, but the same outcome mentioned here. Digging an answer for this problem took me nowhere than in myself. Yes! Believing in your subsistence, trust on your personality and having a brave heart, but within the line of self-esteem or self-worth. Being proud, arrogant and conceited mortal results in the above mentioned statement by many not considering their margins and boundaries that may lead to the end of relationships, friendships and marriages. Regretting is an automatic reason that you can’t change, but what you have to do is learn from your wrongdoings, your mistakes and the moments that go in vain. It’s better to get a clear view of what you are doing and holding in common because there are different set of minds linked to you. Live a life of good way with a pinch of regrets, but not a life of fun with full of regrets.

“Get correct views of life, and learn to see the world in its true light. It will enable you to live pleasantly, to do well, and, when summoned away, to leave without regret." Robert E. Lee